Cancer Update

The most amazing thing has happened. I have no idea what the doctors were thinking but it turns out that my father in-law doesn’t have cancer at all!!
He is still ill though and needs to undergo thorough examinations and possibly surgery again but he is cancer free!! I can’t believe how lucky we are!

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8 Comments / Nov 28.11 / Events, Family & Friends / by Nina Amelia

Timing is everything.

..And I really hope that the doctors have it right. We have to wait until Friday to get any information about what is going to happen with my father in-law. I’m amazed that they let people wait for 2 weeks before knowing anything!

Speaking of timing… I had a conversation with one of our family friends and Person asked how things are going so I told P about everything that’s going on and that Kev’s dad has just been diagnosed with cancer. Response? “Oh, that’s not good. But they aren’t that close, are they?”

-I haven’t told Kev. It wouldn’t do him any good. But I still feel like I should confront this person which I usually do if something of significance bothers me. This time I was so choked that I just started babbling and I still have no idea how to bring it up because every time I think about it I’m still not able to keep my cool. No wait, that’s a fucking huge understatement. I am unbelievably angry and most of all hurt on Kevin’s behalf. On our family’s behalf.

How would you go about this??

No Comments / Nov 23.11 / Family & Friends, Soul / by Nina Amelia